I started this blog in October 2013. It is now February 2018. My ‘About’ section on this site is very outdated. As I read the posts from the beginning I see how weary I have become along the journey. how I have deteriorated. How sad to be able to look through and see myself go downhill, see my hope that shined so brightly, lose it’s shine and begin to fade, how what at first I believed to be a phase, a season, something I would come out of, has become how I and most others expect it to be. The support from others I had around me at first has diminished, as my own efforts to stay positive myself has. This is now a long term thing. Does anyone really believe things will change anymore? I’m not the same person as I was four years ago. This has taken it’s toll. I’m not proud of that. I’d love to have stayed that strong throughout despite everything I have faced in my body and mind, but I am human. I am flawed. I have walked through the fire but I have been burned. I think a lot of people are quick to point the finger at me. I feel judged a lot these days in a way I didn’t at first. And supported less. Yes I guess I have failed. I am having to accept my limitations. Not because I want to, but because I need to, to stay as well as I can be for myself and my husband and children. I have just decided I can’t be a part of a church anymore. Not because my beliefs have changed, not because I don’t want to, but because I just can’t do it. I’m not up to it. For a while I have just gone to smaller gatherings. But I need to stop that now too.
Life is not how I would choose it to be right now. I am not how I would choose to be either. But I believe God remains the same. So I ask God from somewhere deep…please forgive me. I’m sorry. Protect me. Don’t let me go. Lead me into the good things I believe you want for me. Show me the way out of this and help me walk towards freedom and healing. Transform me. Dig out the roots of sin in me and fill me with your love. Help me to love others again. Help me know you with me through this and keep my arms raised towards you when I am too weak. I choose to praise you because I know you to be good. Please protect my family and especially mu children. Let them not suffer through these struggles or have mental health struggles themselves. Please, somehow, turn it all around and use this for good.